Sunday 29 July 2012

Mission parenting!

Studies prove that Human beings are by and large the only species with capacious introspective behaviour i.e.,humans can observe,process and jockey their own mental and emotional states unlike other animals.Humans introspect themselves in a perceptive manner with a rational into-the-self understanding.My needling question here is,Is this contemplative living and kicking 'ever civilizing breed' biased?Rephrasing the question,Are we humans 'inclined' to certain ideas/perceptions which generally are governed by our parenting attitudes/surrounding social demeanor?

Caving in to the situation,

Believe it or not,

#The etiquette of forthcoming generations are fundamentally directionalized by the parenting undergone.

#Most of the disorders associated with children exemplifying ADHD (Attention Deficit hyperactive disorder), Anxiety Disorders,ODD(Oppositional Defiant Disorder),etc.,find their roots in family dysfunction or malfunctioned education rather than psychopathological reasons.

#The parenting undergone by the children essentially governs their perceptional behaviour which later forms the bedrock for their social customs.

Drawing out answer for the aforementioned question from the justifications,Human beings are typically biased and the nature of the bias psychologically depends on concept of parenting.

Any human being is obviously prone to biasing in one or the other way round.My idea isn't about preventing the biased behaviour.For,biasing infact is unavoidable.My idea is being biased with multiple perceptions!

Multiple perceptional bias helps in better understanding about how things stack up,whether it is related to day-to-day life situations or the state affairs.For instance,Imagine yourself whiling time in an amusement park.Out of nowhere a muddled stranger bumps in to you and chides you for blocking the way eventhough it was clearly the messed-up-alien's fault.How do you react to such a situation?Do you convince yourself with "He must be having a bad day.so,blah blah blah.." or would you come out with something like "Such a jerk!".Chosing the former back talk can make whole lot of difference in the scenario rather than opting the latter one and ending up in a verbal war.If this is the case in the micro/singleton level,envision the aftermath in the nation-level domain.

So does the saying,"put yourself in someone else's shoes and check how it feels."

Besides all this,few more astonishing facts about family dysfunctions are that,

#80% of the evolving death row criminals come under the subjects of juvenile justice systems who have underwent tyrannized parenting.

#Preventing 3 out of every 4 homicides can be a piece of cake if proper parenting techniques are developed by the caregivers.

Proper Parenting is all it takes to make a difference.Are you aspiring to live in a better tommorrow?then start off now!Go beyond what it takes to be a better parent.Moreover,parenting which wraps up the sentiments of love and affection is supposed to set jinx on the sick list.For,with love the mission is possible!


We may not be able to prepare the future for our children, but we can at least prepare our children for the future.”
― Franklin D. Roosevelt

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